Parenting today delivers unprecedented challenges to parents. Coping with everything that is expected of you to be a wonderful parent on top of the pressures and demands of modern life is a big task. 

Madeleine can provide a range of services that can support you and your family, school, community to raise likeable, responsible, respectful children in an age of over indulgence.

 

It is hard to grow resilient, respectful, competent children. Children who grow up with too much end up having trouble in life as they:

  • do not know what is enough
  • lack every day life skills
  • have trouble resulting from irresponsible behaviours, violation of others boundaries and expectations of overblown entitlement and
  • cannot give up being the centre of attention

Parenting Road Code by Madeleine Taylor

 

Do any of these quotes sound familiar to you?

“My child spends so much time on his/her/their iPad/device/screen. I don’t know how to stop this. Do you have any suggestions for me?”

“My son is always being mean to me. I don’t know what I can do.”

“My daughter refuses to come to school each day. It is such a battle every morning. How can you help me with this?” 

“My child needs help getting dressed. Will you please be there to help him/her/them after swimming lessons?”

These are parenting issues, and ones that are addressed in the Parenting Road Code. Already proven effective with kiwi families, it is the perfect tool to support parents to reclaim their roles as leaders of their family.

With judgement-free advice, plenty of support and encouragement, along with practical exercises to complete, this book is recommended to all who have inadvertently found themselves in need of gentle re-direction to guide them back to the security of the parenting highway.

Staged as a series of building blocks, the book provides tools for returning leadership to the role of parent, affirming parents’ strengths, and setting goals and firm boundaries with the end goal of establishing an environment where loving family relationships flourish.

Also available the companion Support Workbook. This workbook is to be used along side the Parenting Road Code to help readers think through the exercises and record their thoughts.

Upcoming Workshops

Parenting Workshop – Raising Resilient Children In An Overindulgent World

An opportunity to work with Madeleine learning to use the 6 building blocks of the Parenting Road Code to develop your parenting skills.

Why not join us as we work through the 6 building blocks of the ‘Parenting Road Code’ to develop individual strategies for you as a parent?

  • Goals/Strengths
  • Values
  • Ages and Stages
  • Framework
  • Rules
  • Using the Framework

All the while developing the language and communication to be able to provide the balance between care and structure that our children need.

Cost: $90.00 (includes Parenting Road Code & Support Workbooks)

Date: Wednesday 20th April 2022 9.30am – 2.30pm

Venue: 1/33 Johnsonville Road, Johnsonville, Wellington 6037

Raising Great Kids in an Overindulgent World

Raising Great Kids in an Overindulgent World
This workshop will be a confronting one that will expose you to the risks that children face in this modern overindulgent world.
Many have become used to being the constant centre of attention and are unable to delay gratification and aren’t competent in everyday skills.
They have few self-care skills and skills relating to others, can’t take personal responsibility and don’t know what is enough or what is “normal” for others – these children end up having a difficult time of it in life and you will too.
 
You’ll take away new insight and knowledge plus strategies that you can apply that very night to help your child to be a responsible, likeable and respectful person.
By the end of the session, you’ll be able to:
• Reflect on the current context parents are faced with today
• Find the relevant research
• Practise the parenting tools and discuss the model
• Know where to go to get support
 
When: 
Wednesday 30th March 2022 at  7.30pm – 9.30pm
Thursday 11th August 2022 at 7.30pm – 9.30pm
 
These sessions are run by Wellington High School Community Education Centre

Resources

Have you become a pushover parent?
Have you become a pushover parent?

In today’s world it is more and more difficult to hold a line and expect people to meet it. Have you noticed the traffic lights take longer to change – because people are running not only the orange but also the red lights – so to prevent an accident the lights take longer and longer to change – all because our society has decided to not hold the line. Click to read more...

Setting limits with little people

No one sets out to spoil or overindulge a child, but in this day and age, setting boundaries as a parent isn’t easy, writes Madeleine Taylor. Being a parent today is tough. Coping with everything that is expected of us in order to be a wonderful parent on top of the pressures and demands of modern life… well, it’s a big task!

The things a dragonfly can teach us
The things a dragonfly can teach us

Insects have many interesting and useful traits that are helpful for us consider in our own lives. I was walking through the beautiful grounds of a training facility in Pakua, Tangail about three hours drive from Dhaka, Bangladesh last week. I was snapping pictures of the local scenery particularly the flowers when a large dragon fly landed on a branch in front of me. This dragonfly had me thinking that we can learn interesting lessons from the insects around us. I explored three interesting facts about dragon flies and this is what I discovered. Click to read more...

Managing Change in a school Community

Change is happening; it is all around us and comes in many forms. Change in a classroom, change in staffing, changes in curriculum, changes to buildings, changes to school population, changes to funding and changes politically. Some change is good and some change is not but what is it that makes any change painful to bare? Click to read more...

Building a culture of empathy
Building a culture of empathy

I was visiting a school community at the end of last term and came head to head with a young person charging out the door – no stepping aside, no acknowledgment that I existed. It was the perfect demonstration of the concerns that the school wanted to address. How to build a school community with empathy at its core? Click to read more...

PDF'S

Chores in the Classroom? The Positive Role Chores Provides
Chores in the Classroom? The Positive Role Chores Provides
Developing Smart Risk Takers: Being Aware of How You Support this Development in Students
Developing Smart Risk Takers: Being Aware of How You Support this Development in Students
Goal setting interviews: The impact of overindulgence and the power of habit
Goal setting interviews: The impact of overindulgence and the power of habit
A Starting Guide to Cell Phones in the Classroom by Madeleine Taylor & Taino Bendz
Whose job is it to toilet train your child? Madeleine Taylor

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